Unconditional Love

This is a very beautiful article by Swami Vivekananda—

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.

Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she

filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it

before me, and said this:

“You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It

symbolizes Love.”

This was how I saw it:

As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to

remain there, it will always be there. However, if you

attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it,

it will spill through the first cracks it finds

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet

love…they try to posses it, they

demand, they expect… and just like the water spilling out

of your hand, love

will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you

cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow

them to be free beings.

Give and don’t expect.

Advise, but don’t order.

Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a

lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To

truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations

from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring.”


5 thoughts on “Unconditional Love

  1. I think for a normal human being there should be a fine balance of posession and letting it be free,coz we want to posses the thing we love, we want to have it for us,but this possesion should be limited to being with or being associated with,it should not be like trying to posses once thinking,feeling,life,freedom etc……….life is nothing just a fine balance between things and management,

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